something I use is Bach Rescue Remedy…it comes in cream, liquid, spray, etc. It is used for humans and pets, ALL NATURAL FROM FLOWERS, and is carried on a lot of ambulances for trauma……order it online, hard to find in drugstores anymore. cream: put on ears or paws of pets; on human – use anywhere on body (wrist, hand, etc) (DO NOT EAT or use in liquids) liquid: can be used in human food/drink, in pets food/water, can be used on tongue, or on body of human or paws of pets spray: can be used to spray on pet cages, blankets, pillows; for human, can be sprayed on pillow/sheets etc. DO NOT SPRAY DIRECTLY ON PETS OR PEOPLE have used this for years, keep some in purse, in vehicle etc…..NO DRUGS, doesnt interfere with any meds etc. TOTALLY NATURAL flowers…….it is calming, but you dont know you even used it….no side effects, nothing, you just feel relaxed (doesnt interfere with sleep/driving etc) and calm. use on pets for vets, have moved my cats to 4 different states, worked well for them, before surgeries, doc/dental visits (me), anytime you or pets have anxiety. use also for pets afraid of storms/loud noise, etc.